1. To beautify you eyes, lower your gaze from strange men, this will make your eyes pure and shiny.
2. To beautify your face and make it shiny, keep doing wudu a minimum of five times a day.
3. To have attractive lips, always mention Allah (s.w.t.) and remember to speak the truth.
4. As for blush and rouge, "modesty" (haya') is one of the best brands and can be found at any of the Islamic centers.
5. To remove impurities from your face and body, use a soap called "Istighfaar" (seeking forgiveness in Allah). This soap will remove any bad deeds.
6. Now about your hair, if any of you have problems with split ends, then I suggest a "hijab" (head scarf) which will protect your hair from damage.
7. As for jewelry, purify your hands with humbleness and let your hands be generous and give charity to the poor.
8. To avoid heart disease, forgive those who have hurt your feelings.
9. For a beautiful and flawless face, a "niqab" (face veil) is definitely the thing to wear. It provides that extra amount of wanted privacy, and it serves as the perfect sunscreen.

People spend thousands of dollars on skin preparations  to make your skin look vibrant and glowing. They’re all topical products – products that we put on top of our skin. But if we spent just a fraction of the money we spend on these preparations on RAW FOODS, we’d begin to see an immediate change in the texture of our skin.

When you eat raw foods, you put more of the essential vitamins and amino acids your body needs into it. You’re also adding moisture – naturally. Raw foods have a much higher moisture content than cooked foods, simply because the cooking process takes out so much essential moisture.

Your skin is a mirror of what’s going on in the rest of your body. And when your organs and blood are fed the nutrition they need to function properly, that shows in your skin. Get your vitamins and moisture from foods like apples and carrots. When you do, then phrases like “inner beauty” and “inner glow” will be applied to YOU. Your skin is what’s presented to the rest of the world and healthy, glowing skin makes the best first impression.

When you start adding raw foods to your diet, things will just naturally fall into place. You’ll feel better. You’ll look better. People will react to you more positively. You’ll have so much more energy for your work, your friends, and your family. And this kind of energy is a self-perpetuating thing. You don’t need self-help books and expensive moisturizers and plastic surgery. When your body and skin are getting their essential nutrition with raw, uncooked foods, you’ll look and feel your best, NATURALLY!

Yes, Sarah Palin didn't know what [the Bush Doctrine] is. But neither does Charlie Gibson. And at least she didn't pretend to know -- while he looked down his nose and over his glasses with weary disdain, sighing and "sounding like an impatient teacher," as the Times noted. In doing so, he captured perfectly the establishment snobbery and intellectual condescension that has characterized the chattering classes' reaction to the mother of five who presumes to play on their stage.

Memo to Charlie Gibson: Never open your mouth unless you know the shot.

I no longer care about Sarah Palin's qualifications for the job of VP. I'm just enjoying the overreaching hate she elicits. Not that I would know anything about that...

It's great to admire, enjoy, and appreciate the beauty
of someone or something, including good looks and inner beauty.

But I'm really sick of people who's skin-deep.
I hate that, and it disgusted me.

That's all.

This short video was shot at a local German restaurant specializing in a delicious variety of sausages. The woman playing the piano struck me as incredibly ugly. Later, I discovered she was blind when a small child walked up and requested a song -- she didn't look at him but only cocked her ear in his direction and smiled. My lovely guests were emotionally moved.

Listen carefully to the video, particularly toward the end. You will hear her sing with a beautiful lilting voice. The incongruence reminded me of the power of contrast and pleasant surprises. You would do well to keep that lesson in mind in your interactions with women.

arif yang pergi jauh dengan berjalan kaki. Cuma

yang aneh, setiap ada jalan menurun, sang arif

konon agak murung. Tetapi kalau jalan sedang

mendaki ia tersenyum. Hikmah apakah yang

bisa saya petik dari kisah ini?"

"Itu perlambang manusia telah matang dalam

meresapi asam garam kehidupan. Itu perlu kita

jadikan cermin. Ketika bernasib baik, sesekali

perlu kita sadari bahwa satu ketika kita

mengalami nasib buruk yang tidak kita

harapkan. Dengan demikian kita tidak terlalu

bergembira sampai lupa bersyukur kepada

Sang Maha Pencipta. Ketika kita sedang

bernasib buruk, kita memandang masa depan

dengan tersenyum optimis. Optimis saja tidak

cukup, kita harus mengimbangi optimisme itu

dengan kerja keras."

"Apa alasan saya untuk optimis, sedang saya

sadar nasib saya sedang jatuh dan berada

dibawah."

"Alasannya ialah iman, karena kita yakin akan

pertolongan Sang Maha Pencipta"

"Orang yang terkenal satu ketika harus siap

untuk dilupakan, orang diatas harus siap

mental untuk turun kebawah. Orang kaya satu

ketika harus siap untuk miskin."

Sumber : Motivasi Net

Jika Anda memiliki hati yang tulus, penuh penghargaan serta gembira atas kebaikan yang dicapai orang lain. Maka tidak ada yang Anda berikan kepada mereka selain pujian dan jabat tangan selamat yang meninggikan kepercayaan.

Jika Anda memiliki hati yang culas, penuh kecurigaan serta iri dengki atas kemajuan orang lain, meski itu teman karib Anda sendiri. Maka tidak ada yang Anda lontarkan melainkan celaan dan ucapan cemooh yang merendahkan. Tidak hambatan bagi Anda untuk membuang muka menyangsikan keberhasilan mereka.

Hati yang kotor, meski dibungkus dengan sutera terbaikpun, pada ujungnya akan mengeluarkan bau tidak sedap. Entah dalam ucapan ataupun tindakan. Sedangkan hati yang jernih, walaupun disembunyikan, akan tetap memancarkan kecantikannya, baik dalam perkataan maupun perilaku.

Sumber : Motivasi Net

An Italian Catholic priest has urged an online beauty contest for nuns, expected to involve about 1,000 young "brides of Christ," Italian media have reported.

Very few... and I mean VERY few... women in DC have met my exacting standards of quality. I'd estimate that of all the girls I've dated in this city less than 10% were worthy of my full attention. I'd hazard to guess that if all men held themselves to the same high standards I do and didn't kowtow to the first chick who deigned to bless them with a crumb of affection there'd be universal agreement among DC men that my 10% figure is accurate. Maybe in flyover country the number of quality girls hits 25%. In Poland it is 80%. The times have changed and quality girls are no longer the norm.

So what makes a quality girl? Well, I know what *doesn't* make a quality girl.

• She has cheated more than three times in her life, or has cheated more than once on the same boyfriend.
• She forgets to say "thank you" when you buy her a drink. Buying her a second drink confirms her ingratitude.
• She dates around. Dating around -- specifically, seeing more than one person concurrently -- is a prerogative of men only, for reasons having to do with the greater leverage men need to arm themselves with to compete in a dating market that is fundamentally tilted in favor of women. Any girl who makes a habit of dating more than one guy at a time, especially if the parallel dating lasts longer than one month, in order to milk her options is a bad seed. In all my years of banging, one soulsaving thing I've learned is to walk away from any girl who I've discovered is also dating other men. Even if I beat the competition and win her over, it never ends well.
• She tells you she has a long distance boyfriend she loves, then proceeds to bang you anyway. A few months later, you see her groping a new guy, and she's still with her boyfriend. (That relationship is doomed.)
• Her default mode is sarcasm, negativity, coarseness, and shamelessness.
• She spends twice as much time getting ready for a house party than she spends getting ready for a date with you.
• She can't control her impulse to flirt with other men. Double minus points if she does this in your presence.
• She doesn't seem nervous undressing in front of you the first time.
• She fucks you on a pretense of less than the sum total of an hour of conversation, and calls you the next day worried that your condomless sex might have given her something. (She's been down this road before.)
• She is proud to be on the pill and considers her dependence on it a carte blanche slut sanctioner instead of a safety net affection fortifier.
• She is cavalier about casual sex.

A quality girl does the opposite of all the above. She doesn't cheat, and if she does she has a plausible rationale. But she will still feel bad about it. She is generous when it is risky to be so. She is positive and lifts people up, not pushes them down to lift herself up. She laughs at the absurdity and beauty of the world, but never at the expense of others. She is warm, and this is something that can't be taught. She says "I love you" early and often out of conviction, not inquisition. She understands that her heart is more important than her pride.

A high quality girl is good for standing by, sticking with, supporting always, loving fully, defending righteously, and if the timing is right, embracing for life to the exclusion of all others. She is the type of girl who can enthrall you with her words alone. She can make you smile over the phone. She can be far away but feel near. She is often discovered in the unlikeliest places, and her magic is the energy that animates her pretty face, rather than the other way around.

Low quality girls are good for fucking, a few laughs, some funny digicam pics, and that's it. Spare your hard-earned manly capital -- your time, your resources, your protection, your commitment, your LOVE -- for those few quality girls you might meet if you're lucky. And speaking as a man who has seen, heard and experienced enough to turn the most naive optimist into a stone cold cynic, if you do meet a girl like that, you would be a fool to pass her up. Her kind is going extinct.

Anyway, 他说他不知道，不过却对B比较有好感，因为他喜欢B 的聪明。虽然他觉得A 比较漂亮，但却 “cannot stand that A is stupid”。Ok, he’s getting mean. But, think of it this way, isn’t it encouraging that some guys out there actually think that a girl’s interior is more important than her exterior?

Sometimes, women need some boost jab like this i.e. something which happened around you to tell you that your value does not always depreciate with age; it actually appreciates with age! 但是，我们不可以就这样松懈下来。举个例子: 两个女人，一个年轻漂亮，一个稍年长，样子也普通。两个人都同样聪明，有趣。那么男人会选择谁呢? 你知道答案的。

Morale of the story is: 女人要不断地丰富自己，不要让自己停在某一个阶段就满意了。所以，如果你年轻漂亮，要记得充实自己的内在，因为外表是会改变的。就算外表没有改变，空心的你也难以留住男人的心。

如果你不是年轻漂亮，也不要灰心。因为当你越来越充实的时候，你才找得到那个不被外表所诱惑，懂得珍惜你内在的好男人。就算找不到，你也能过得满足，开心。因为你已经领悟到，你的幸福不一定要是男人给你的。

My grandfather had leukaemia, the slow killing kind, at that stage he'd had it for 5 years and we all knew the time was coming, especially him.  He died a year later of an Aneurysm while camping up the East Coast of SA, he was an avid camper and hiker right up till just 10 hours before he died in a run down little hospital.  When I heard he was in hospital I was stunned and then just a couple of hours later he died.  I cried for days, his funeral was worse, I had lost my guardian, the guy who tried to stop it all but no one listened to, the man that knew.

A couple of days after the funeral the whole family were gathered at his house to sort through all his possessions.  As they started to separate all his belongings and heirlooms into the relevant piles I played in the corner with my little brother, trying ever so hard not to see what they were doing.  I understood then fully, the reality of spirit and human form, he was there watching but they were cold.  Cold as ice "Do you want the artifact or shall we give it to the museum?", "I want that cabinet, I know it has no names on but I WANT it", "No I think I will take it, it suits my style".  Fights, fights, fights, I thought to myself then that I never want to be like that when I became an adult, I never want to die.

Still focusing on my little brother my Aunt called out to me, showing me to come to her.  As I approached her she held out the little statue that I had chosen the previous year with my grandfather.  A little statue no one wanted but me, it was so dirty and tarnished that you could barely make out the intricate markings and carvings.   As I took the statue from my Aunt she told me that she had almost thrown it in the bin because it looked like trash but had noticed my grandfathers hand etched in the bottom.  They all turned and stared as I held the little dirty trashed statue in my hands. "Are you sure you want to keep that dust collector" they all asked. "Sure I said, its from Oupie, I love it".  They all looked at me as if I was mad.

I took the statue and hid it in my bag, I then took it home and again as we left they asked me why I would keep such a thing.  I repeated to them my reasons, to me the statue was beautiful, it was peaceful and best of all it was from my Grandfather.  Once home, the statue went up on my bookshelf right next to my world atlas and dictionary, my other two prized possessions.  For a whole year it sat there all dirty and dark, not a shine to be had, just the sentimental reminder that my grandfather was watching over me.

It sat on that shelf until one morning, a year later on, I decided on a lark that I was going to take a cloth to its surface and see if there was anything below the surface.  It felt like metal after all what was there to lose by a bit of elbow grease.  As I started to rub the head little spots of brass started to shine through in a golden hue.  I started rubbing and rubbing, faster and faster, I was going to prove to them just what a beauty my statue really was.  I polished and shined it, cleaned up the wood and put some varnish to that as well.  All done I showed the adults and they couldn't believe what they saw, there before them was an intricate antique bronze Buddha statue embedded in carved oak. 

There they all sat, jaws dropped, all those that had told me to throw it away were now chewing flies.  Now suddenly there was an interest in my little statue, an antique Buddha which may have travelled with my Great-Grandfather down from Calcutta.  Suddenly now that he was all shiny and pretty my little statue was worth something, just a few rubs a go he should've been in the bin.  I thought this profound and just plain ridiculous on the part of the adults and I made it be known that perhaps they should think before throwing other things away, they may just be throwing gold away thinking that it was trash.

I left the room leaving those adults to munch on their flies and their words but the lesson stayed with me albeit only fully realised when I myself became an adult. 

The lesson was to never judge a book by it's cover.  Sometimes all a person needs is a bit of polish and they begin to shine again, their true beauty and unique awesomeness becomes more brilliant.  Although I had always given people a chance before, coming to this realisation consciously put greater meaning to it.  I never again judged a person by what they seem to be; I always look deeper, I looker under the layers of "grime" and "dust"; I try to polish and shine each person I come across; I always take the time to listen and not see, hear and feel with less thought and more soul.

The lesson's I learnt at twelve is this:

Seek not the gold but the soul buried beneath the dirt and grime

Never trust your eyes for they may lie to you, instead trust your ears for they can hear the the truth.

Always take the time to rub, polish and shine for you never know what you may find.

I treasure my little Buddha, he has taught me many things, my hidden gem, my throw away treasure.

For me those lessons were always how I saw other people, the lesson was to always be open to others and shine them... never myself.  Now it is both.

So, as expected, I'm feeling a bit dispirited. I feel like I have been building something (foundation, house, sky-scraper) for eons, just to have everything crash straight down to Earth. What you put out into the world is what the world will put out for you, so I suppose.

Karma crossed? Not this time. Just bad timing.

I guess this is what happens when you have it all figured out. The pretty girl is the lonely girl (this time I'm talking about inner beauty). I'm not going to let it get me. I will keep going, keep spreading my love for life. I'm entitled to be heartsick.

I'm entitled to continue smiling too. It is not hiding the pain, but masking it to something better. Life goes on. I could wait forever, and in fact, might be doing just that. But my smile will be there through and through.

So now I wait. Just waiting, ready for what life tosses my way.

And now some ramblings of what my heart would say, since my head normally takes over as in the above...

Too many times does my heart set heavy with the unknown. Too many times do I ponder the past. I sit like a wounded dog licking my wounds. Wounds so deep it is hard to hide. Regret leaves one to think of what has been. For each breath so much harder than the last. To hear the voice that makes one's heart miss a beat. In the end it makes one wonder, shall this be my last heart beat.

Andrea Camperio Ciani and colleagues at the University of Padua, Italy, showed that the female relatives of homosexual men tend to have more children, suggesting that genes on the X chromosome are responsible.

"It helps to answer a perplexing question - how can there be 'gay genes' given that gay sex doesn't lead to procreation?" says Dean Hamer of the National Institutes of Health in Bethesda, Maryland, who was not involved in the work. "The answer is remarkably simple: the same gene that causes men to like men also causes women to like men, and as a result to have more children."

Camperio Ciani emphasises that, rather than being a "gay gene", this unidentified genetic factor is likely to promote sexual attraction to men in both men and women. This would influence a woman's attitude rather than actually increasing her fertility, making her likely to have more children.

The girl's attitude is key here. Femininity is not just curves, it's temperament and personality. When I meet girls now I screen them for how many gay brothers and cousins they have:

"So this girl I used to date was telling me how great it is for her to have a gay brother, which is even better than a best gay boyfriend. Do you have any gay relatives?"

I believe screening for this in girls will mean a more romantic dating life, more affection from the girl, and fewer lawyers in my stable of regulars. In fact, I would bet any chick who is a lawyer has a lot of lesbian relatives.

*****

The downside of being President when people are watching: A girl offers you her ass and you have to politely decline:

Bush knuckled off a couple of lobs, but defending gold medalists Misty May-Treanor and Kerri Walsh gave the chief executive some pointers. Then after a good play, in the tradition of female volleyballers, May-Treanor turned, bent over slightly and offered her bikinied rear-end for the 43rd president to slap.

"Mr. President," she said, "want to?"

[...]Bush wisely chose instead to brush his hand across the small of May-Treanor's back.

I'd have slapped, spread, and dry humped her. Of course, as President I'd set up a rendevous later in a secure location where she'd really get my approval for her good play.

I read the comments on some of the news sites to this story. Unsurprisingly to me, most of the negative comments were from women, who used it as an opportunity to bash Bush's "perviness" and religious leanings. It's funny how Bush is so unpopular with women, especially young women and feminists, when he did the "right thing" in this situation, and when by all accounts he's a moral exemplar of the faithful, loyal (beta) husband. And yet a guy like Bill Clinton, who in practice shit all over feminist principles by sexually harassing interns, fucking subordinates, cheating on his wife multiple times, getting blowjobs from women considerably younger than himself, and even coming dangerously close to actual rape, is beloved by women and especially by the very same feminists whose phoniness and moral relativism Clinton showcased for the world. Beautiful. I trust the lesson has not escaped my readers.

*****

Here is a great line you can tell a girl during the A2 (female to male interest) attraction phase to boost your value:

"I could introduce you to every guy in this room, but I can guarantee that none of them will be as interesting as me."

Concepts hit: DHV, social status, push-pull. It's been field tested and proven successful, so give it a try and let me know how it goes.

whats girl want...?

be pretty and sexy lady...be a party queen...perfect...glamorous and fashionable...

you can be what you want girls,dont b afraid to be unique...

but remember : beauty is not just from outside

real beauty come from inside...

(mmhm hmmm)
(ohh yeah)
(mmaa ahhh)

Everyday is so wonderful, then suddenly,its hard to breath
Now and then I get insecure, from all the pain
I'm so ashamed

I am beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful in every single way
Yes words can't bring me down (ohhh nooo)
So don't you bring me down today

(mmmhmm mmm)

To all your friends you're delirious
So consumed in all your doom.... (oohh mmm)
Trying hard to fill that emptiness,
The pieces gone,left the puzzle undone,
Aint that the way it is?

You are beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring you down (ohhh noo)
you are beautiful in every single way
Yes words can't bring you down (ohhh noo)
So don't you bring me down today

No matter what we do (No matter what we do)
No matter what we say (No matter what we say)
We're the song inside the tune (yeah yeah oh yeaaahhh)
Full of beautiful mistakes
And everywhere we go (And everywhere we go)
the sun will always shine (the sun will always always shine....)
And tomorrow we might awake
on the other side

'Cause we are beautiful no matter what they say
Yes words won't bring us down (ohhh noo)
we are beautiful in every single way
Yes words can't bring us down (ohhh noo)
So don't you bring me down today

Yeaah eeeeeeee yeaahh eah Dont you bring me down mmmm, today

"It has most likely been a light weapon since it's a minor wound."

Although the video is grainy, this female reporter looks hot. She has the stunning high relief apple face typical of Slavs that gives me mighty boner. And she has a slender figure that is the norm instead of the exception for non-babushkas in her part of the world.

Ask yourself, how many women do you know who can get shot and continue working in a calm manner without crying or crumpling to the ground helpless? Now... how many HOT women do you know who can do this?

Does this seem like the type of woman who takes Cosmo sex quizzes, who organizes her mammoth shoe collection by hue, who dances on bars, who has had every hole violated and blogs about it, or who gets drunk on margaritas with her aging spinster friends before a marathon night of Sex and the City viewing?

Watch this woman and understand finally why your devalued law degree and non-profit job mean nothing to me.

Not only is she hot and can take a bullet without missing a beat, she probably knows how to cook healthy meals, haul water from the well, and orally please her man. You surmise, correctly, that given her grace under pressure after getting shot she has the strength of character to sacrifice for her children and perform her domestic duties without whining or running to a divorce lawyer at the first sign of her husband not "meeting her needs". As a man, you will have to be strong for her, very strong, BUT LOOK WHAT YOU GET IN RETURN.

How can the modern American woman possibly compete against this? Answer: She can't. Which is why cuntastic femicunts are feeling the heat and worked hard behind the scenes and out of the public eye to pass into law the misandrist International Marriage Broker Regulation Act, designed to make it more difficult for an American man to meet a foreign woman with a more feminine and pleasant disposition than the average American woman.

I hope American men are reading this and absorbing the lesson. Flights to East Europe are always available. You know what to do. So... what's stopping you?

 What are the motivations?  It could be a number of things.   There are so many possibilities which could range from being a thrill seeker, being in bondage to lust, looking for an emotional connection, wanting to feel loved, acting out as a result of some kind of previous abuse, financial reasons, seeing it everyday in the media and the community thus considering it to be the "norm", revenge, personal insecurity, generational curses, societal pressures, and even as a result of substance abuse, etc.  The list could go on and on.   The details on what makes a person behave in a promiscuous manner are probably as varied as the people on the earth, but I am convinced it all comes down to one thing.  It stems from not knowing who you are- who the Creator has created you to be.  That's right...our Creator. 

We did not evolve from animals or primitive life forms.  We were created by the Master...the Father...the Almighty, Omnipotent, Omnipresent, God... He created us.  He's created each of us. We are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God.  We are spirit, we live in a body, and we have a soul (our mind, will, and emotions).  We were never made to be ruled by our soul.  We are not to make decisions based on our emotions.  We were created to make our decisions from a spirit that has intimate fellowship with its Creator. Things went awry, and we lost the fellowship for awhile, but guess what?  There's good news!  We've been given the opportunity to restore that fellowship.  It's called a lot of things, the new birth, being born again, etc. but it is redemption.  Our spirit (who we really are) is born anew - a new creation- once again we are God's own.  However, it is up to each one of us to make the choice to become born again...to restore what was lost...to have intimate fellowship with the Father...our Creator.  This is only done through a personal relationship with our Savior, Jesus Christ.  He has done all the work.  He did it on the cross and He did it all for Love.  Now, that's LOVE.  All we have to do is believe in our heart that Jesus is the son of God and that He loved us so much he took on flesh through the virgin birth in order to be born on this earth so he could take our sins upon himself and die in our place.  He, who was without sin, took on sin that we may have life.  He died a horrible death in order that we should have the opportunity to live...and be free.. and have life more abundantly.  But it didn't stop there.  He defeated death.  He defeated the grave.  After three days he was resurrected- brought back to life and now He lives once again...He's seated at the right hand of the Father... He is Lord..and He can be your savior...if you'll believe and ask Him to be.  That's all there is to it.  You just have to believe who He is and what He's done and then ask Him to be your Lord and Savior- say it out loud  (believe in your heart and confess with your mouth).  Once you've done that... well, Congratulations!  ...You're born again. 

Does the journey stop there?- you may ask.  The answer to that is "no."  The journey is just beginning!  You can go as far as you'd like on this journey... draw near to God with all you've got.  Cling to his Word and His ways.  Fellowship with Him intimately during the worst of times...the best of times...and all the time... the choice is up to you.  Dig into His Word, and find yourself within it.  It's time to realize just who you are.  You can find that out in the pages of the love letter He left for you.  Yes, within the pages of the Bible you will find out just who you are and who Your Creator is... who your Lord is... and who your teacher is... you can find out that He had a plan for you all along...that you're no mistake, no matter what you've been told. 

Oh yes, there's great news in store for the believer... which means there's also great news for the unbeliever and the non-believer- simply because they can choose to be a believer.   The choice is yours and that's great news! 

So why not dig into the Word and find a new self-image...and a life worth living...a savior worth having...and a brand new beginning... why not see yourself as valuable...and clean...and free?  Why not envision yourself through the eyes of Love and see what the Lord has seen...

You're precious in the eyes of the Lord... precious and bought at great price- with the precious blood of Jesus.  Your heavenly Father looks at you and wants nothing but the best for you...for His child...nothing but the best will do. 

So, does the best include a life of using person after person in order to fulfill our own desires?  Does it include a life of bedhopping?  After all, we will reap a harvest on  whatever we have sown. Maybe that's why we are warned over and over again in the book of Proverbs about the rewards of such looseness, "but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged and devouring sword.  Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold of Sheol (Hades, the place of the dead).  She loses sight of and walks not in the path of life; her ways wind about aimlessly, and you cannot know them."  and " If you do, you will lose your honor and will lose to merciless people all you have achieved.  Strangers will consume your wealth, and someone else will enjoy the fruit of your labor.  In the end you will groan in anguish when disease consumes your body.  You will say, “How I hated discipline!  If only I had not ignored all the warnings!  Oh, why didn’t I listen to my teachers?  Why didn’t I pay attention to my instructors?  I have come to the brink of utter ruin, and now I must face public disgrace.”  Such acts, such deeds, no matter what we may want to call them are never the best.  In the end, they cost...too much. God is not trying to hold out on us.  He just wants to keep us from reaping a harvest of pain and unneccessary problems.  After all, He created sex for us.  However, He created it to be used in the best way- within the marriage covenant of a man to his wife... as a lovely act of intimacy between two people who have stood before God and man and made a legal and morally binding committment to one another.  Anything other than that is just another ride at the carnival.  When we settle for it we are settling for so much less than God's best.

So what do we do?  What do we do when we've lived a life of using people for our own selfish desires.... of being used for our own selfish wants... what do we do?  Well, the answer to that is part of the greatest news of all... through the blood of Jesus, you begin again.  That same precious blood that saved you... washed away all your sin...is able to give you a fresh start, if you so desire. There is never a need for you to remain in sin.  If we should fall down, the answer is to stand back up and begin again.  A penitant heart, confession before God, and faith in the powerful blood of Jesus makes us free to stand again.  Don't ever let your past hold you down.  Our Lord paid a dear price for us to rise and walk free... to have life and to have it more abundantly... to have the courage and faith to begin again- and, if necessary, begin again.

Be Blessed!

Melilea Botanical Skin Care merupakan Produk alami yang di Ekstrak dari tumbuh-tumbuhan Hijau dengan menggunakan Teknology Tinggi, sehingga produk ini sangat aman di gunakan untuk kulit anda. Melilea Skin Care bukan Make Up, atau alat kecantikan seperti Kosmetik, melainkan bahan-bahan pencuci muka yang berguna untuk memelihara kesehatan kulit, mengilangkan jerawat serta flek-flek hitam di wajah anda. Produk ini SANGAT unik karena dapat di gunakan baik untuk Wanita maupun Pria.

KANDUNGAN : Terdiri dari – Lidah Buaya, Minyak Bijirin, Green Tea, Ekstrak Chamomile, Ekstrak PIC, Gingko Biloba, Bee Wax, Ekstrak Witch Hazel, Serbuk Biji Aprikot, Ekstrak Bunga Rosemary, Minyak Zaitun, Vitamin E, dan Vitamin C.

Melilea Botanical Skin Care Series

Melilea Botanical Skin Care Series adalah hasil yang diperoleh dari penemuan teknologi terkemukan oleh Lembaga Penelitian Melilea (Melilea Research Institute), setiap produk dari rangkaian ke tujuh yang ada dirumuskan dengan cara yang unik untuk menjamin efisiensi yang maksimal.

Setiap bahan baku yang ada pada rangkaian perawatan kulit Botanical Melilea ini diambil dari tumbuh-tumbuhan murni dan bahan-bahan yang benar-benar alami, sehingga manfaat maksimal pada kulit benar-benar dapat diperoleh. Rangkaian produk ini sengaja di cipta secara khusus untuk mengembalikan wajah anda menjadi muda dan bercahaya secara alami.

Rangkaian perawatan kulit Botanical Melilea ini memberikan kelembaban, oksigen dan nustrisi yang dibutuhkan oleh kulit anda untuk membentuk kulit sehat berseri. Setiap bagian dari rangkaian ini telah melalui uji kemurnian, keamanan, hypo-allergens (test kadar alergi) and keampuhan. Penggunaan dalam jangka waktu panjang dan terus menerus akan memberikan hasil kulit halus, lentur, bercahaya dan berseri seperti dambaan anda.

1. PEMBERSIH

Melilea Herbal Cleanser
(Reg. No.: MAL04124196K)
Busa terdapat pada Herbal Cleanser ini bebas minyak dan mengandung lidah buaya, ginko biloba, rosemary, vitamin E yang murni dan sari tumbuh-tumbuhan alami lainnya. Melilea Herbal Cleanser bukan saja merupakan pembersih wajah yang Lembut namun secara menyeluruh juga membersihkan kulit yang berminyak dan cenderung berjerawat.

Cara Penggunaan
Ambil sedikit pembersih dengan sponge bersih, atau dengan telapak tangan. Usapkan keseluruh bagian wajah, untuk hasil yang maksimal, tambahkan air hangatdan lakukan pemijatan wajah dan leher secara lembut. Bilas pembersih tersebut dengan air hangat.

1. CLEANSE

Melilea Soothing Milk Cleanser
(Reg. No.: MAL04124199K)
Terdiri dari bahan alami seperti lidah buaya, minyak wijen, teh hijau, Vitamin C dan E, dan sari tumbuh-tumbuhan alami lainnya. Jenis pembersih ini sangat sesuai untuk jenis kulit kering dan sensitif.

Cara Penggunaan
Oleskan Melilea Shooting Milk Cleanser pada bagian wajah dan leher. Tambahkan air hangat lalu pijat wajah dan leher secara lembut dan merata dengan ujung jari. Bilas pembersih dengan air hangat. Melembabkan kulit kering.

2. SCRUB

Melilea Gentle Exfoliant
(Reg. No.: MAL04124203K)
Formula bebas minyak yang mengandung serbuk biji aprikot terbaik, secara lembut dapat menghilangkan sel-sel kulit mati dan kotoran juga sekaligus menyempurnakan tekstur kulit Anda. Butiran bulat lembut yang terdapat pada Melilea Gentle Exfoliate ini tidak akan merusak sel-sel kulit.

Cara Penggunaan
Oleskan sedikit gentle exfoliate pada wajah dan leher dengan menggunakan air dengan tangan secara lembut. Lakukan Pemijatan secara lembut selama 1-2 menit. Bila kulit anda terasa kering, tambahkan air dan pijatan diteruskan. Lalu bilas dengan air atau busa hingga bersih.

3. PENYEGAR

Melilea pH Balance Toner
(Reg. No.: MAL04124201K)
Toner bebas alkohol ini mengandung witch hazel, sari buah persik dan chamomile.

Cara Penggunaan
Sehabis menggunakan pembersih, oleskan Melilea pH Balance Toner keseluruh bagian wajah secukupnya. Anda dapat menggunakan kapas atau bahan lembut lain.

4. MENGHIDUPKAN KEMBALI

Melilea Revitalizing Cream
(Reg. No.: MAL04124204K)
Melilea Revitalizing Cream adalah krim pelembab kaya yang bertujuan untuk melawan tanda-tanda keletihan kulit yang nyata, meningkatkan kadar kelembapan kulit serta memperbaiki kelenturan dan tekstur kulit. Diformulasikan secara khusus dengan menggunakan bahan-bahan alami seperti sari angelica, chamomile, ginko biloba dan witch hazel yang bermanfaat untuk meningkatkan pembaharuan sel.

Cara Penggunaan
Oleskan sedikit Melilea Revitalizing Cream pada wajah dan leher. Krim ini akan dengan mudah menyerap pada kulit. Melilea Revitalizing Cream memberikan kelembapan juga nutrisi lengkap pada kulit. Gunakan dua kali sehari, pagi dan malam.

5. MENINGKATKAN

Melilea Oxy Intensive Cream
(Reg. No.: MAL04124205K)
Oxy Intensive Cream mengandung bahan-bahan aktif yang diambil dari sari tumbuh-tumbuhan. Bahan-bahan aktif ini termasuk Vitamin A, C, beta carotene dan beta glucan yang dapat melawan kerusakan yang disebabkan oleh lingkungan.

Cara Penggunaan
Setelah kulit dibersihkan, gunakan krim tipis-tipis pada wajah dan leher. Biarkan 2 sampai 3 menit untuk menyerap. Jika masih terlihat sedikit krim yang tertinggal pada wajah anda, ini berarti krim yang anda gunakan terlalu banyak. Namum krim yang sedikit tertinggal tersebut dapat dipijat secara lembut agar menyerap kedalam kulit. Setelah krim tersebut terserap, selanjutnya anda dapat menggunakan Intensive Nourisher. Hindari kontak langsung dengan mata.

6. PERLINDUNGAN

Melilea Intensive Nourisher
(Reg. No.: MAL04120407K)
Diformulasikan secara khusus dari bahan-bahan alami terbaik termasuk besswax murni, minyak zaitun dan serbuk mutiara , yang semua merupakan pemberi nutrisi alami kepada kulit. Dilengkapi dengan perlindungan matahari spf15 untuk melindungi kulit dari sinar ultra violet yang merusak kulit.

Cara Penggunaan
Gunakan hanya pada siang hari (pagi)- setelah meggunakan Revitalizing Cream dan Oxy Intensive Cream. Gunakan sedikit cream pada wajah dan leher lalu sapukan secara merata seluruh bagian wajah. Penggunaan secara terus menerus akan membuat kulit menjadi lembut, lentur dan muda berseri.

I'm not asking if you would do her. She's a solid 9 in the face and has an arousing fertile figure. If she made herself freely accessible, nearly all men would masturbate in her hole. The majority of those would go back for repeat performances.

But would you date her for longer than a month? Commit to her?....... Marry her?

The model, Kelly Knox, has refused to wear an arm prosthetic since she was seven. If I were dating her, I'd leave a very subtle hint, like a fake arm on her pillow before she goes to bed. The fake hand grip would be perfectly adjusted to fit the girth of my manhood.

I once dated a girl who had a physical deformity. She dressed and carried herself in a way that hid it well, but at certain angles I could see something was not quite right. It wasn't until I got her into the bedroom naked (2nd date) that the full impact of her defect was obvious to me. It gave me pause which she must have noticed, but because she was very pretty facially and, despite her disfigurement, had an otherwise hot slender body, the sex felt great. Her personality, probably owing to a combination of good genes and a realistic self-esteem caused by the mocking cruelty of her childhood peers, was sweet, charming, nurturing and affectionate. Her incredible feminine allure and admirable character put to shame almost every DC woman I have dated, which makes me think a deformity would be the best thing to happen to them.

My happiest times with her was when we were alone together. I stopped noticing her problem when it was just me and her over a homemade dinner in my living room, or her head resting on my chest in the morning. But when she wanted to go out in public on a date, I balked. I made excuses. I suggested places where there would be few people (the woods) and a low chance of my friends seeing us.

Eventually, we did leave the apartment. I took her to a friend's house party. She was dressed the sexiest I'd ever seen her, tight white pants that accentuated her cellulite-free ass and a low-cut blouse. She smiled the whole time, so giddy, almost reckless, gripping my arm with much love, and never leaving my side for more than a minute. She dared to show herself off because she was happy to be my woman, released from self-consciousness by my protection and the validation of my affection. She felt wanted with me and for that moment in her life any murmur of sadness was lifted and she wished the world to share in her abandon. A couple of my friends gave me props for my good taste while staring at her ass.

I spent the entire time at the party maneuvering myself around her so that no one would notice her deformity. When she walked across the room I would wrap my arms heavily over her shoulders. When she leaned to hear someone speak, I would pull her away pretending to have something important to say to her. I tried to guide her into shadowy corners, away from the glaring flourescent lights in the kitchen. It was exhausting.

I was not proud of my behavior, but I understood why I had acted that way.

You would have done the same. Animal.

That girl was me.

Insecurity, emptiness and a low-self esteem are three things I kept hidden from most people - even from myself. To hide my insecurities, I demanded perfection with my looks. I felt that I needed to have the best outfit, the best hair, the best makeup. I worked so hard in focusing on my outer shell so that people could not see what I lacked internally. Perhaps if I was beautiful on the outside people would accept me and think that beautiful on the inside.

However, when all you do is focus on your shell, that's all that other people will focus on too. You will draw in the same energy you put out. In the case of male attention, guys would see me as nothing more than a sex object or some pretty chick. Not saying these are bad guys, they weren't. But if my exterior was what I was putting forth, then, that's all they were going to see.

Through a lot of soul searching and support and patience from my sisters and close friends, I began to find empowerment within. I worked on myself - my mind, my spirituality, my passions. I have grown up to be a lot more comfortable in my own skin - mind you, I'm not completely there yet, but i'm getting progressively closer. I'm not saying to never put on a pretty dress or your favourite lipstick...I love my dresses and getting dolled up. I'm saying, that while its fine to look good and take care of how you appear physically, dont neglect what's really important....and that's on the inside. I truly believe that when you are comfortable with who you are and feel empowered within, it will show on the outside. You will possess this glow and energy that will follow you everywhere. However, if you do not work on the inside, nomatter how nice your features are, or how pretty you look in that new dress, your insecurity and self esteem cannot be hidden and can be sensed by anyone who is quality. Sure, guys might hound on you and think you're "hot", but really, who cares? "Hot" fades in the blink of an eye...your shell will deteriorate, and what is left?

As I was talking to my dear friend Paulina, we were talking about how fortunate we were. I think the reason why I have been able to grow up and evolve so much is because I am surrounded by quality people. I have two amazing sisters and friends that are like family who will give me constructive criticism and engage in deep conversations with me. The way we grow is by talking, releasing your emotions and thoughts....the person listening is so important because they act as a soundboard...and your thoughts are bounced back and subsequently you in turn absorb the messages. Unfortunately, not everyone has this support, so it makes it that much harder for them to grow. So if you dont have a good support system does that mean you are hopeless? Of course not. It might require more effort, but if there is a will to change and evolve, then the journey has already started. What has helped me:
-Reading books to expand my knowledge
-focusing on the quality people in my life and weeding out the non quality ones
-regulary analysing myself, not lying to yourself or "patching up"/escaping my insecurities or issues

Those are a few things I have done that has helped me in my personal growth which has ultimately enabled me to shift my focus on my outer shell to inner self.

I'll open the dialogue to anyone else who may have thoughts on this subject or suggestions on how people can develop their inner beauty.